Do you know what is the stuttering? Completely you know what i mean. So now I will explain this subject because this problem is like despair and it can be more dangerous for stutterer people. First of all I'd like to explain about my stuttering problem, we're ( so stutterer people) normal person, not different to other people. Just we have a speak problem when we start speak it can be difficult for us and it is undergoing. hard times because your opposite person don't want to listen you and they always say, WHAT DO YOU MEAN? COME ON! HURRY UP! etc... They don't give you support and respect. About me, I'm 26 years old now and When I was a child, this problem had me killed and poor. I hadn't had friends because no one don't want to speak me so I had confused those days and I was crying everyday and ask myself, why people don't want to speak me and they're moving from me. I was alone everyday and it stills continuing. Many people say, this stutterer problem not important in the life because that's a easy problem but they don't know what are we feel and how we live with this problem. They were just talking... When I was in high school we had a religion lesson this lesson is called ''Din Kültürü ve Ahlak Bilgisi'' One day teacher had told our class '' everyone will prayer to memorize'' I had scared because how I could read prayer also as loudly. We had one day for prayer to memorize and after lesson I went home as rushing and full stressly. I had memorized two prayer so next day it's reading order had came me and I rode loudly but as a little stammering. When read finish teacher said me, you have a speak problem so I give you a low score and I had shocked so I asked why teacher? What happened? He said me, sorry but you had to rode these prayers as regular. I was second shock but how can it!? And later I said him thanks. It was bad day for me but I hadn't cared. Now, I have some problems again like before things but I grew up and I don't care just I want to be happy. As last story about today, I had a job interview in a factory so I was excited because they invited interview second time and I said myself, ok! They accepted me but I thought wrong when I went to there I waited boss of that factory when he came looked my face and hey I know you we had talked 3 month ago and I said yes. Anyway we talked again about job and he asked me, did you learn English language? I said in the 3 month? This is impossible I said. he laughed and said ok ok. Finally he said me, sorry but you're a stutterer person so we cannot working with you... That moment I said again ''Oh no! This is not real!'' But it was real and he apologised me. I haven't know what I should say to him. I just smiled and said good bye him.
So, if you don't stutterer person, you never understand us and never know what we feel...
It sucks that some jobs and opportunities are closed to stutterers. I heard once that a warrior doesn't see problems, only challenges. I think learning new languages is a good way to confront this challenge. Keep it up!
YanıtlaSilThank you so much your supportly article and all of stutterers know what we feel and they're always get difficulty. About me, Since end of the 2012 I'm going to an English course for learn a new language. I had thought if I learn a new language, my speak problem is may be resolve. Also all of stutterer different about the speak (congenital,illness etc...) So anyway thank your very much again your respectly article.
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